我不再单身
Monday, June 3, 2019 | 8:04 PM | 0 ruler breaker
I am back to this little space of mine.
It's been 3 years since I last posted something here. I strongly believe no one is even aware that this place still exist. But well, even so, I think it's good that I can start back this little hobby of mine in updating my little space.
These 3 years, I would say that there's changes in my life, yet there's none.
I finally manage to get myself off the shelf 2.5 years back, and got together with a 小哥哥, Mr Ng JianHui (He was my ex colleague back in iDarts Halo) Back in those days, I was the type who will just leave workplace as soon as I end work. So I don't even communicate with any of my colleagues, except for the one who is working the same shift as me. When the clock strikes 6:00pm, Rui Jia will be gone, unless I have friends visiting me for darts.
Mr Ng and I don't talk even when we had worked together for one opening shift. Or maybe we did had communication, which is work related. #RuiJiaIsJustAntiSocial But I guess we start talking only when one day, I was at the cashier and he was with another colleague standing behind me talking about going for a smoke break, I turned and said "Bojio?" Both JH and our colleague was in shock and said "You smoke?" People use to mention that smoke breaks bond people together. I guess that's how we started off talking.
One random day, I don't know what's wrong, but after I end my shift at 6:00pm, I stayed and sit at the bar counter and talk/accompanied JH till 11ish. Even though in between, there's this uncle who is also at the counter talking to us. I guess JH was a little jealous because the uncle can stand close to me, but JH and I had the bar counter barricading us. But also because of this, we got closer, so much closer. He actually thought I was attached as he saw that I am wearing rings (which I often wear it, regardless single/attached) He seems to be relieved knowing that I am single at that point of time.
Of course, our relationship didn't start off smoothly. That period of time, I'm still protecting myself from every guy that come by. But thankful that JH is very patient and understanding, which slowly melt me.
On 15 November 2016, he officially popped the question "Are you willing to be my girlfriend?" at the most unromantic place, the bar at our workplace. 实在没有 feel.
It is getting a little late, I shall continue this 爱情故事 again next time.
Till then, love you.
Labels: #NJHRJ
May, you're good so far.
Tuesday, May 24, 2016 | 12:47 AM | 0 ruler breaker
May have been a good month so far, so many happy occasions happened.
First, attended Junhui's graduation with Sinee. Witness the beginning of his new phase of life, just make me feel so happy for him. As planned, we headed in JB for a short getaway. Massaged, soak ourselves in Jacuzzi, fill ourselves with food and more food. Really is a chilling and awesome getaway with my close few. Come to think of it, knowing them since Secondary 2, it's the first time we travel together. Of course, it's not gonna be the only one, there's more to come~
Second, spent time with #SDSPPLR to celebrate 三公主 aka my 宝宝 Soozhen's birthday. Had I'm Kim's with them, but sadly it's not the full force for the dinner. Supposed to go for a drink after the dinner, but due to time constraint, I went back to rest and prepare for work the next day.
I also get to meet my beloved hikies, and as usual, it's not full force, as Brandon is in Gold Coast studying. Well, it's always hard to have the full force to meet. And now that Brandon is in Gold Coast, we can only meet up as a full force maybe when he's back during the summer break or when he complete his studies (which is 3 years later?) Had Jackpot K Seafood and Cheese BBQ Buffet, it's pretty good and affordable. With the pricing of $37.90nett with free flow of drinks, salmon sashimi, oysters, and other food. Well, didn't take photos on this day as we are all tired and also hungry. But we still did a lot of catch up and bringing back of memories.
Then it's 宝宝's actual birthday, so we planned to go in JB together with Peijuan for a getaway. Well, Sz and I actually planned to go in for a massage session from 2015 May till now, so might as well we go in on this special day as we are both free. Met them at JB custom and I would like to say, if you need to change for Ringgits, you can change it at the money changer @ the custom as it'll give better rate. I changed mine at SGD$100 = RM290, but of course there might be a few money changer with a little higher rate at JB Sentral, but well, who knows it might be lower when you reach. So first stop, we head over to KSL for bakutteh cause we are all hungry. This time, I took a bus over instead of cab (well, last time I always cab over as I'm not sure about the bus route. But i did research so I took S1 by Causeway link which only cost RM1.50 per pax)
So this month, marks a special month for one of our 公主, Lavina. She changed her status from Ms Lee to Mrs Tan, and we are all there to witness the day of her life. Soon, her status will be from mother of none to mother of one.
All these sums up my eventful May.
Till then, love from me.
Labels: #SDSPPLR, #SDSPPLRbigday, #SDSPPLR生日, #Trjavelogue, #Wedding
Start of Second Quarter of 2k16
Tuesday, April 26, 2016 | 1:45 AM | 0 ruler breaker
Wow, time flies, and in a blink of an eye, it's coming to an end of April.
I think sometimes, I've to believe in Murphy's Law.
The more you don't want to meet someone, the easier you'll meet.
越不想遇到的人，越容易遇到。
This hit me strong enough as it happened to me the other day when I chilled with girlfriends after movie at Cathay's Starbucks. When we are on our way to Cathay from Bugis, while walking pass Parklane, I prayed hard that I won't see familiar face. The person whom I least want to bump into will be K. Things goes smoothly, till we start to chill at Starbucks.
Was chatting happily with girlfriends, till I saw someone came and sit at the table right in front of us. I don't know why but I just sense familiarity, and when I really take a good look at the side view of the guy, it's K... I freaked out, and my first reaction is to hide myself (which I don't know why) I whined to my girls saying that I feel like vomiting, and it really makes me feel uncomfortable. I admit that I still care about him, but I just don't like the fact that he still appears in front of me like that. I don't mind he appear a distance away, but I just don't like it when he appears so close to me. It's not the first time, it's the second time he appeared so close to me.
After our drinks, we decided to head out to the steps for smoke breaks. I've no idea why, but I turned and looked into the space where we were sitting earlier on to check if he's still in there. Peggy mentioned that she thinks the guy in there was him, then Soozhen mentioned "I thought he was the one behind us now" The moment I turned to check, I FREAKED OUT AGAIN! He's sitting right behind us, like OF ALL PLACES, RIGHT BEHIND US.
Soozhen and Peggy.
I think that just proves that we are fated to appear in each other's life, but not fated to be together.
On a side note, it's 方爸's birthday today! 帶我家的三老 to Triple Three for birthday lunch. I mean, since it's 1-for-1 with POSB/DBS card members, why not. May 我家的三老 be healthy and happy always, even though shits are pilling up. But as long as we stay together as one, we can conquer anything and everything!
Since April is coming to an end, I just pray and hope and will make May a better one. As I've planned out the events one by one already. Can't wait to for them to happen!
Till then, stay tuned.
Labels: #SDSPPLR, #SZandRJ, #zhenqijia, My life, That past of mine (K)
